Category: Relationships

Her, Him, Relationships, The Husband & Wife

and so we’re 3!

Dyan

3rd Anniversary

and we’re three today! Although i kept thinking it’s only been 2 years.
How did 3 years pass by so fast?

We did not plan anything for this year although we pretty much go for short trips on each Anniversary, this year is an exception because my husband is a pregnancy nazi. He is not ok with me taking flights during the pregnancy although i’m having a pretty normal pregnancy and i see pregnant women travelling for work & holidays all the time! I had to beg him to let me take a flight to KL this November because it’s less than an hour and it’s so close to home.

Yesterday, we were watching some Cooking/Travel Show and they were showing Tom Yam Goong at Krabi and i asked him if it’s okie if we go to Krabi for a short while on my birthday weekend (which is next week hahahahha) because i wanna eat that Tom Yam Goong at Ao Nang.

He gave me a death stare so i assumed that’s a no. I told him i was craving for Tom Yam Goong and he told me to cook it myself. Pffft.

They say pregnant women get everything they want. So not true!

and then i thought maybe we should go to Carousel and pig out but selfish me think it’s not worth it because i cannot eat Sashimi and Oysters and who the hell go to Carousel and not force-feed themselves with Sashimi & Oysters? Definitely not me! I think i’ll either be so sad i can’t eat sashimi & oysters when i’m there or i’ll just try my luck and eat them, and then get salmonella. Hahahahaha

So, it’ll be a stay home anniversary for us with him catching up on Suits on the ipad and me playing Frozen game on my iphone. How interesting. Lol

Relationships

fragile. handle with care

Dyan

by that, i mean relationships.

One of the couples we know, always known to be very sweet to each other is calling it quits to each other after 8 years of marriage. Not sure what was the breaking point and i don’t wanna ask too much since it’s probably something very very private but i couldn’t help feeling sad for them and their offsprings.

But i can’t help thinking what could have triggered that need for separation? How does it  feel to suddenly not love that someone we have been sharing our life & bed together for many many years.

While i have been in & out relationships since my teenage years, i can never imagine not having to look forward to the husband coming back from work and hearing him snore next to me at the end of the day. Not hearing him complain about work or me texting him at the very last minute for Cadbury chocolates. I guess it’s never the same when you are married.

But alas, they say.. Jodoh, ajal & maut semua terletak dalam tangan-nya.
May Allah always protect my family from harm. May He never turn us against each other. Amin.