by that, i mean relationships.
One of the couples we know, always known to be very sweet to each other is calling it quits to each other after 8 years of marriage. Not sure what was the breaking point and i don’t wanna ask too much since it’s probably something very very private but i couldn’t help feeling sad for them and their offsprings.
But i can’t help thinking what could have triggered that need for separation? How does it feel to suddenly not love that someone we have been sharing our life & bed together for many many years.
While i have been in & out relationships since my teenage years, i can never imagine not having to look forward to the husband coming back from work and hearing him snore next to me at the end of the day. Not hearing him complain about work or me texting him at the very last minute for Cadbury chocolates. I guess it’s never the same when you are married.
But alas, they say.. Jodoh, ajal & maut semua terletak dalam tangan-nya.
May Allah always protect my family from harm. May He never turn us against each other. Amin.