i remember telling a close girlfriend previously,
“If the relationship requires so much hard work that you almost feel burdened and suffocated, maybe it is not worth it after all?”
i still stand by it till now.
even though me and the boy had trouble fitting into each other lifestyle early in the relationship, i find that we cruised through our courting days quite smoothly with not much drama-mama (think cheating partners or case of mak bapak tak approve the relationship or financial disagreements)
yes we squabble but which couple don’t kan?